Monday, January 07, 2008

Dongzhimen with the Kids

Movies, malls and a night stroll on Ghost Street

Mall Crawl
The newly opened, labyrinthine Ginza Mall offers enough attractions to keep the family entertained for ages. Your teens will salivate at the sight of genuine Quiksilver and Adidas brand clothing at Sport 100 on Basement Level 1, while cartoon fans will be desperate to search out every section of the Disney store, which is divided into several outlets dotted throughout the mall. Mom and Pop can sip lattes in one of the numerous restaurants or coffee shops, or browse over the designer jewelry available at every turn. Keep up your energy with a treat from one of the many patisseries. And don't forget your wallet!

Ginza Mall
(Some English spoken.) Daily 10am-10pm. 48 Dongzhimenwai Dajie, Dongcheng District. 银座 Mall, 东城区东直门外大街48号

A stroll on Ghost Street
Gui Jie, otherwise known as “Ghost Street,” is a feast for all the senses. Decked out with red lanterns, this place really starts to heat up around the witching hour. But Gui Jie is still buzzing when the sun’s out, and both sides of the street are lined with restaurants offering dishes from every conceivable area of China – build up an appetite with a fun and noisy family stroll.

Gui Jie
(English levels vary.) Most restaurants open daily 24hrs. Gui Jie, Dongzhimennei, Dongcheng District 簋街,东城区东直门内

Park Your Keister
Miniscule Nanguan Park, located near the Russian Embassy, has a quaint, local feel. It's usually filled with senior citizens and young mothers, but don’t allow yourself to be put off by the apparent tranquility. Feel free to unleash your rabble on all the facilities that the park has to offer: a junior-sized basketball hoop, a trampoline, a swing set, a duckpin bowling lane, a collection of toy cars, and air-guns. Fatigued parents can put their feet up and admire the curious landscaping, which seems to have been constructed entirely out of bathroom tiles.

Nanguan Park
RMB 1, RMB 4 (monthly pass). (No English spoken.) Daily 6am-8.30pm (winter), 6am-9pm (summer). 1A Xiyangguan Hutong, Dongcheng District (6403 4087) 南馆公园,东城区西洋馆胡同甲1号

Have a Whale of a Time
If the thought of throwing down big bucks for the kids' clothing at the Ginza Mall makes you light-headed, take a detour and head behind the mall to the dinky but well-stocked Whale Baby Clothing Store. Catering to kids up to 1.3m tall, this place has the gear you need to make your kids perfectly dapper without denting your bank balance. Basic baby accessories start at RMB 5; the most expensive items don’t exceed RMB 300. For the fashion un-inclined, there’s a selection of simple dolls and toys.

Whale Baby Clothing Store
(No English spoken.) Daily 8.30am-8pm. 2A Dongzhimen Nandajie, Dongcheng District (6413 1550) 鲸鱼宝宝童装, 东城区东直门南大街2A

Catch a Flick
Sure, DVDs get the job done, but there’s still nothing that compares to the movie theater experience. Treat yourselves to some celluloid magic at East Gate Cinema – at RMB 60-70 for a ticket it’s admittedly a little pricey, but children under 1.3m get 50 percent off, and two hours of free parking are provided. English-language films are usually shown in English with Chinese subtitles, but call ahead to make sure.

East Gate Cinema
(Basic English spoken.) B1/F Bldg B, East Gate Plaza (behind the Poly Theatre), Dongzhong Jie, Dongcheng District (6418 5931) www.dhyc.cn 东环影城,东城区保利大厦北侧东环广场B座地下一层

Get Some Game
Are your xiao Yao Mings itching to get out there and dunk? RMB 50 books you a basketball and an hour on a half-court (trash talk not included) at the East Gate Fitness Center. If your kids are into less sweaty pursuits, you can skittle some pins at the bowling alley, or flex your wrists at table football.

East Gate Plaza Fitness Center
(No English spoken.) B1/F, Bldg A, East Gate Plaza, 29 Dongzhong Jie, Dongcheng District (6417 1188 ext 588) 东环广场健身中心,东城区东中街29号A座B1

Make a Production out of Dinner
The gregarious staff at the always-bustling Dongbeiren welcome you to their restaurant with a song, and will come to your table to serenade you again if you’re lucky. The flowery uniforms and open kitchen are fun to look at, and there’s space for the whole family to lounge luxuriously on a kang. Little kids are welcome and they can rustle up a makeshift highchair should it be required. Ask the staff to do a fan dance for your kids, and they’ll happily oblige. A meal for six should be around RMB 200.

Dongbeiren Restaurant
(One English speaking member on staff, picture menu.) Daily 10am-10pm. A1 Xinzhong Jie, Dongzhimenwai, Dongcheng District (6415 2855) 东北人,东城区东直门外新中街甲1号

Silly Reader, Don’t You Know? There’s No Such Thing as a Gruffalo!

Best-selling author Julia Donaldson speaks to tbjkids about her popular children’s book The Gruffalo

Beijing’s young fiction fans were given a treat last month when hugely popular British children’s author Julia Donaldson (accompanied by her guitar strumming hubby Malcolm) arrived to give an all-action performance of her book The Gruffalo. This quirky picture book has sold over a million copies and been translated into 31 languages. tbjkids headed to The Bookworm to catch the show and check out just how excited the lucky little Beijingers in the audience were going to get. Afterwards, we managed to grab a word with the lady herself.

Your books The Magic Paintbrush and The Gruffalo were inspired by Chinese folk stories. Have you seen anything on your trip to China this time that may make its way into a future story of yours?

Julia Donaldson: The Magic Paintbrush is very much a retelling of an original Chinese story (Shenbi Maliang, 神笔马良), whereas for The Gruffalo I just used the idea from a Chinese story as the nucleus and developed it from that. Actually, I am in the middle of writing a novel for older children. It’s about a 15-year-old girl who runs away to Glasgow because her parents have been killed. I’m sure the things I’m seeing here will influence the story in some way, but the ideas need to settle and develop in my mind first. Maybe it will be the Chinese food!

You and your husband Malcolm sing, dance and act during your readings. Do you think your books are better read aloud, rather than read in silence?

JD: My books should probably be read aloud. If the books are read silently I’m sure the reader can hear it in their head, but as a lot of my books have a rhyming scheme, to really enjoy them you have to hear them aloud.

Your collaborations with illustrator Axel Scheffler have been very successful, especially on The Gruffalo. Do you think his pictures help to complete the story that you have created?

JD: It’s just part of the process of writing a book. I send the book to the publisher; the publisher then sends it to an illustrator, who comes up with some rough sketches. I then get to see these and I can make a few comments or suggestions about them. But when I wrote the book Monkey Puzzle, Axel had terrible trouble with the skies he was drawing. Everyone thought they were brilliant but he thought they were rubbish. He wrote me a funny postcard saying that he hoped the next book I wrote didn’t need any pictures of the sky. So I wrote Sharing Shell, which takes place underwater, so there wasn’t a single picture of the sky in it.

When you were younger you wanted to be an actress. If you were given the chance to act in a movie adaptation of one of your books, would you go for it?

JD: Yes, but I wouldn’t like to be the age I am now. If I could be any character I would have to be younger. I really identify with my character Mirror-Belle [from Princess Mirror-Belle] – she’s a bit anarchic like me. So really, I’d like to play her, but I don’t know if I could get away with playing a character that young. Probably playing a little old lady would be my best part now.

How do you explain the amazing success of The Gruffalo?

JD: I suppose that’s not really a question for me – you should ask the people who buy it or like it. I have thought about it though and I think it’s the combination of a good plot and some really interesting language at the heart of the book that makes The Gruffalo so successful.

Do you have plans to write a third installment of The Gruffalo?

JD: I’ve thought about writing The Gruffalo Granny and so on, but I think I would only be interested in doing it if I thought of a very good plot. The Gruffalo is now going to be made into a one-off TV show. It will be about half an hour so I will have to come up with some more plot. I already have a few ideas and I will be very interested to work together with the TV company to get it made. So The Gruffalo will be back in another form at least.

Beat the Heat

A guide to keeping your cool in Beijing

With the mercury in Beijing’s thermometers set to skyrocket, the chances of a family meltdown are high. But don’t panic just yet! Instead, pry those sticky bodies off the couch and follow the tbjkids guide to the best places and ways to stay cool in the swelter – you might just end up wishing the summer would go on forever ...

The Coolest Valley

As its name suggests, the temperature in nearby Qinglianggu (Cool Valley) is usually 5-6 degrees Celsius lower than it is in the city. Head here to beat the heat and check out the natural pools and the famous Pearl Waterfall. If you want to get even cooler, next to the waterfall you’ll find a cave that’s 230 meters deep and has an average temperature of 18 degrees Celsius. Cool activities in Cool Valley include fishing, bamboo rafting, and badminton.

Cool Valley Scenic Area
Driving: Head northeast on the Jingcheng Expressway (京承高速) and exit at Shunmi (顺密出口). Head towards the Miyun Reservoir (密云水库), pass the Heilong Pool (黑龙潭), and then drive straight until you arrive at Qinglianggu (清凉谷).

Public transportation: Take bus number 980 from Dongzhimen (东直门) to Miyun Gulou stop (密云鼓楼). From there, take a van (RMB 8 ) towards Sihe Tang (四合堂), and get off at Qinglianggu (清凉谷). Entry: RMB 36. Waterfall: RMB 16, free (kids under 1.2m). Qinglianggu Fengjingqu, Jiayu Cun, Miyun Xian (8204 5803) 清凉谷风景区,密云县贾峪村

Slip and Slide

You don’t want your kids to turn into summertime slugs, so keep them active in the heat with a trip to a local water park. If you’ve suffered too many sunburns already, the indoor H2O fantasyland Merry Water World offers plenty of activities for kids of all ages including multiple waterslides, a pool, and a lazy river. Parents can enjoy a relaxing time poolside while the little ones attack the tube slide again and again. If you’re seeking a little vitamin D and a beach-like feel but can’t make it up to Qingdao, head instead to Crab Island, where you can pick a spot on the real sand “beach,” float on the artificial waves or mosey down the lazy river. Big kids will thrill to the waterslides, and little ones can tear things up in the large kiddie section. You can also get wet just outside the confines of the Third Ring Road at Tuanjiehu Park, which features a wave pool and other aquatic fun.

Merry Water World
Weekdays: RMB 98, RMB 60 (kids under 1.4m), free (kids under 1.1m). Weekends: RMB 138, RMB 60 (kids under 1.4m), free (kids under 1.1m). Daily 9.30am-10.30pm. Jinzhan Xiang, Dongweilu, Chaoyang District (Take the Airport Expressway to the Weigou exit. Turn left at the first stoplight, right at the second, and then go straight.) (8433 0606 ext 5104) www.yujinxiang.com.cn 郁金香花园, 朝阳区东苇路金盏乡

Crab Island
RMB 38. Daily 8am-1am. 1 Xiedao Lu, Chaoyang District (Take the Weigou exit off the Airport Expressway and follow the signs.) (8433 5566/5588) www.xiedao.com 蟹岛绿色生态度假村, 朝阳区蟹岛路1号

Tuanjiehu Park
Entrance: free. Beach: RMB 20, RMB 15 (kids). Daily 6.30am-9pm. 16 Tuanjiehu Nanli, Chaoyang District (8597 3603) 团结湖公园, 朝阳区团结湖南里16号

Take Shelter Under the Big Screen

Everyone knows that movie theaters are notoriously over air-conditioned. Take advantage of the overzealous cooling mechanisms and catch a matinee. Summer is the time Hollywood likes to unleash its blockbusters upon the world, so you should have a couple of movie choices – grab some popcorn, sit down in the darkened room and take a few hours break from the sun’s unflinching gaze. Wanda International Cinema is also home to a sizeable video game arcade, ensuring that you won’t have to step back outdoors until the sun has long since gone down. Star City, in Oriental Plaza, has a great choice of grub to chow down on, and East Gate Cinema has a convenient parking lot, so you won’t have to trek too far from the car to the door. If you’re looking for a bargain, all of the theaters below are half-price on Tuesdays.

Wanda International Cinema
RMB 70. (free for kids under 1.3m). 3/F, Bldg B, Wanda Plaza, 93 Jianguo Lu, Chaoyang District (5960 3399) www.wandafilm.com 万达国际电影城, 朝阳区建国路93号万达广场B座三层

East Gate Cinema
RMB 60-70. B1/F, Bldg B, East Gate Plaza (behind the Poly Theatre), Dongzhongjie, Dongcheng District (6418 5931) www.dhyc.cn 东环影城, 东城区东环广场B座地下一层(保利大厦北侧)

Star City
Foreign films RMB 60-70 (adults), RMB 45-50 (students); local films RMB 40-50 (adults), RMB 35 (students). Daily 9am-10pm. B1/F, Oriental Plaza, Dongcheng District (8518 6778) www.xfilmcity.com 新世纪影城, 东城区东方广场地下一层

Ski a Summer Slalom

In the blistering heat it’s easy to forget that only a brief season ago Beijing was colder than an Eskimo’s icebox. Why not relive those blissfully chilly times with a trip to Qiaobo Ice and Snow World for some ski and snowboard action? It’s not the French Alps, of course, but it’s the closest you’re going to get to skiing this summer and you only need to travel as far as Shunyi. Dig out your winter gloves and get ready for a summertime snowball fight.

Qiaobo Ice and Snow World
RMB 180/first hr (weekends; includes ski rental), RMB 30/additional hr for skiers with their own equipment. RMB 30/ski clothing. Daily 8.30am-9pm. Inside Chaobai River National Forest Park, Mapo, Shunyi District (8497 2568) www.qbski.com 乔波冰雪世界, 顺义区马坡潮白河国家森林公园内

Add Ice

Attention parents! Ice is not only an ingredient in margaritas – it’s also an amazingly versatile substance and a ton of fun to skate on. An afternoon at one of Beijing’s many indoor ice rinks is an ideal way to burn off steam without getting instantly drenched in sweat. The Century Star Club rink is a bit on the small side but private lessons are RMB 300/90 min; group lessons start at RMB 70/90 min if your kids get really into this activity. If your little ones are still on training skates, try the Champion Rink in Haidian – it isn’t usually busy and novice skaters can fall over without fear of embarrassment. If skating isn’t your cup of tea, drop the kids off at the small but popular Le Cool rink in the China World Trade Center, and hit the (air-conditioned!) shops on your own.

Century Star Club
Private lessons are priced at RMB 300/90 min and group lessons start at RMB 75/90 min. 54 Zhongguancun Nandajie, Haidian District (6786 7028) www.centurystar.com.cn 世纪星俱乐部, 海淀区中关村南大街54号首都体育馆

Champion Rink
Weekdays: RMB 25-45/90 min. Weekends: RMB 45. Basic private lessons for RMB 120 and up (RMB 600/five private 45-minute classes). Advanced classes RMB 60/90-minute lesson. Entry-level group lessons RMB 350/five 90-minute classes, but group sizes vary. Golden Resources Mall, 1 Yuanda Lu, Haidian District (8887 4899) www.sunshinezero.com/english.htm 冠军溜冰场, 海淀区远大路1号金源新燕莎

Le Cool
Weekdays: RMB 30/90 min (10am-6pm), RMB 40/90 min (6-10pm). Weekends: RMB 50/90 min. Daily 10am-10pm. B2/F, China World Trade Center, 1 Jianguomenwai Dajie, Chaoyang District (6505 5776) 国贸溜冰场, 朝阳区建国门外大街1号国贸地下二层

Swing Low, Sweet Hammock

Picture the idyllic scene: it’s a beautifully sunny day, you have your choice of icy beverage in hand and a cool zephyr caresses you while you swing away in your hammock. If you’re lucky enough to have a garden, you shouldn’t really deny your children the privilege of possibly the most comfortable piece of furniture known to man. San Fo Outdoor equipment store sells hammocks ranging from RMB 60-110. Markets (Tianyu Market is a good bet) are also good places to look for this summer essential.

San Fo Outdoor Equipment Store
Daily 10am-8pm. 1F, Jinzhiqiao Plaza, 1A Jianwai Dajie (west of China World Trade Center), Chaoyang District (6507 9298, 6591 7041) 三夫户外,朝阳区建外大街甲一号金之桥大厦一层(国贸西侧)

Tianyu Market
Daily 9am-6pm. 10 Tuanjiehu Dongli, Chaoyang District (8598 0697) 天宇市场, 朝阳区团结湖东里10号

Go Underground

Some sun evasion activities can also have educational benefits. When the sun is beating down on the asphalt sidewalk, escape below it to this cool subterranean labyrinth. Kids will love walking around under the city and viewing some old-school communist memorabilia. Get yours to try and imagine which part of the city they are strolling under.

The Underground City
RMB 20. 62 Xi Damochang Hutong, Qianmen, Dongcheng District (6702 2657) 北京地下城,东城区前门西打磨厂胡同62号

Edible Air-Con

When you’ve had your fill of cold noodles it’s time to move on to the most delicious summer food of all: ice cream! Comptoirs de France, which has branches at East Lake Villas and China Central Place, has delicious gelato (as well as some tasty pastries and chocolate). For the more health conscious and farther-flung Beijingers, Haidian’s New Zealand Natural is a lighter way to enjoy the sweet treat. If you are interested in a Chinese twist on dairy treats, try Wen Yu Nai Lao, which offers traditional cold milk puddings just as satisfying as a tub of Ben and Jerry’s. Last but not least, there’s Gustomenta, the good ol‘ Sanlitun standby, offering up homemade gelato and a lovely patio – there’s also a branch tucked inside a coffee shop at Soho Xiandai Cheng.

Comptoirs de France
Daily 7am-9pm. 1) 1/F, East Lake Club, 35 Dongzhimenwai Dajie, Dongcheng District (6461 1525); 2) Rm 102, 1/F, Bldg 15, China Central Place, 89 Jianguo Lu, Chaoyang District (6437 8994) 法派, 1) 东城区东直门外大街35号东湖俱乐部1层; 2) 朝阳区建国路89号华贸中心15号楼102

Gustomenta
1) Daily 9am-2am. 24 Sanlitun Lu, Chaoyang District (6417 8890); 2) Daily 7am-midnight. 1301, Soho Xiandai Cheng, Chaoyang District (8580 5111) 1) 朝阳区三里屯路24楼东侧; 2) 朝阳区Soho现代城1301商铺

New Zealand Natural
Daily 8.30am-10pm. Store 3, B1/F, Zhonguancun Carrefour Shopping Center, Haidian District (5172 1522) 海淀区中关村家乐福地下层3号店

Wen Yu Nai Lao
49 Nanluoguxiang, Dongcheng District (6405 7621) 东城区交道口南锣鼓巷49号

Cool Dip

It’s important to drink your water, especially in the summer, but it’s way more fun to play in it. Pools serve several important functions: they get the kids out of the house, offer a chance for some exercise, and can cool you down, even on the hottest of days. If you’re after some outdoor swimming try Splash Recreation Club near the airport – you can sip cocktails from the poolside bar while your kids play Marco Polo. In the city proper, there’s an outdoor pool at Chaoyang Park and tons of indoor pool options – many offer swim clubs if your child is thinking of getting serious about his breaststroke.

Chaoyang Park Outdoor Pool
Opens in June. Prices and times TBA. 1 Nongzhan Nanlu, Chaoyang District (6506 5409) 朝阳公园, 朝阳区农展馆南路1号

Ditan Indoor Swimming Pool
RMB 30 for unlimited pool use. Mon-Fri 8.30am-3.30pm, 6.30-10pm, Sat-Sun noon-9.30pm. 8 Anwai, Hepingli Zhongjie, Dongcheng District (6426 4483) 地坛游泳池, 东城区安外和平里中街8号

Dongdan Indoor Swimming Pool
RMB 30, RMB 20 (students), RMB 10 (children under 1.2m). Daily 10am-9pm. A2 Dahualu, Dongcheng District. (6523 1241) 东单室内游泳馆, 东城区大华路甲2号

Friendship Hotel Indoor Pool
RMB 100/2 hrs, RMB 50/2 hrs (kids under 1.2m). Daily 7am-11pm. 1 Zhongguancun Nandajie, Haidian District (6849 8888 ext 32) www.bjfriendshiphotel.com 北京友谊宾馆, 海淀区中关村南大街1号

Lido Hotel Indoor Pool
RMB 600 for package of ten visits. Daily 6am-11pm. 6 Jiangtai Lu, Chaoyang District (6437 6688 ext 1871) 丽都假日酒店,朝阳区将台路6号

Splash Recreation Club
RMB 100, RMB 50 (children), free (kids under 4). Daily 6am-10pm. Sino-Swiss Hotel, 9 Xiao Tianzhu Nanlu, Shunyi District (6456 5588 ext 1217) www.sino-swisshotel.com 浪花俱乐部, 顺义区小天竺南路9号国都大饭店

Pizza Party

Kids get hands-on in a Papa John’s pizza-making course

Pizza: the ultimate kiddie food. Infinitely customizable yet always recognizable, it never goes out of favor. Which is why tbjkids was so excited to learn about the pizza-making courses at Beijing pizza chains like Papa John's, designed to let kids get up close and personal with their favorite meal. In the spirit of investigation, we rounded up six rambunctious pizza aficionados to try out the Little Papa course at the Kerry Centre branch of Papa John’s.

Although food is an international language, Papa John’s rep Shelly Dong came down to lead Jan (10), Hunter (9), Livia (7), Clayton (6), Ellen (5) and Tao (4) in English. While some Papa John’s staff speak functional English, it’s best to request an English instructor of your own if the pizza makers in your group aren’t bilingual.

The pizza party kicked off with an introduction to the basic pizza ingredients. The standard spread includes the usual suspects like cheese, tomato and pepperoni, as well as fancier fare like olives, ham and pineapple. If you have hankerings for any specific toppings, you can request them in advance.

Next up was a quick safety talk and a kitchen tour. Decked out in hairnets and aprons, with paws freshly scrubbed, the gaggle was ushered into the kitchen to watch the chefs roll out the dough for their pizzas and check out the toasty fate that would await their tasty creations.

Back at the preparation area, with their freshly prepared pizza bases in front of them, it was time for the toppings. But, with their appetites triggered by their jaunt in the kitchen, the kids needed a little extra fuel first (a round of garlic bread did the trick). To help your own group hold out until their pizza is ready (about 30 minutes after the start of the course), consider a snack beforehand.

The kids needed little instruction on constructing their pizzas, and soon marinara sauce and pepperoni slices were frantically flying (avoid dressing your offspring in white!). Hunter decided to go with a pizza face motif, while little Ellen thought it a better idea to just cram as much as much meat onto her pie as humanly possible.

Deeply satisfied with their efforts, the kids took a short breather while their handiwork baked. To keep them occupied, they were treated to a visit from the lovable Mr. Pizza (an employee dressed up like a slice), who arrived for some good-natured jostling. Six minutes later, the pizzas arrived piping hot from the oven; cue 15 minutes of blissful silence as the hungry horde chowed down on the fruits of their labor. Once the feeding frenzy subsided, the kids were presented with a certificate and some small toys, and sent off to digest.

Papa John's Little Papa courses cost RMB 58 per child and can be booked for 4 to 16 children by calling the location of your choice.

New Year, New School

What you and your kids need to know about changing schools

It is the nature of expat life that families have to become accustomed to frequent changes. Still, the prospect of moving to a new school, dealing with a new schedule and making new friends can be stressful for even the most well-traveled kid. What can you do to make this sometimes scary transition as smooth as possible for your own children? We spoke with several Beijing international schools to get some practical advice for parents of kids dealing with a move to Beijing, a school transfer, or a move between school levels.

Nursery and Kindergarten Transitions
Jack Hsu of Ivy Bilingual School and Sarah Ma of Eton International School provide tips about avoiding first-day tears (yours and your kids’)

Getting Prepared

Get comfortable with the new environment
You don’t want young kids to be shocked by anything out of the ordinary when they start school, so try to provide yours with as much advance exposure to their future school as possible. “At Ivy,” explains Jack Hsu, “as soon as a child registers, we encourage parents to bring them to our campuses so that the kid is familiar with the new environment.” A lot of schools let young kids come in for tester days before they begin school so that they can see the facilities and maybe even make a few friends before day one. It’s also worth looking into flexible school schedules – it’s best that the transition from staying at home and going to school every day be an incremental one.

Be strong, mom and pop, be strong
Hard as it may be to hold back, a tearful farewell at the classroom door is not in your kid’s best interest. You want your child to realize that going to school is a normal, everyday thing, instead of a cause for alarm or sadness. “At Eton, all parents are offered a course on separation anxiety,” says Sarah Ma. “This includes information on how to drop off a child for the first time without any trauma. Saying goodbye to your children for the first time is often a lot harder on the parents than the children, and kids can pick up on a lot of this stress.” Consider planning something relaxing or fun that you can do after the big goodbye – this will give you something to look forward to and a schedule to keep to.

Real Life Experience: Starting Elementary School

Grace Fan attended the International Montessori School of Beijing from the age of 2 and then moved on to The British School of Beijing for elementary. We spoke to her dad Wen-Chun about how she handled the change.

I think kids are very adaptable at a young age. Before transferring to the British School, Grace had always looked forward to going to school every day. For the first few weeks at the British School though, she was reluctant to go to school each day. But after that she was fine.

We always asked her about how her day was at school. We knew that MSB and the British School would be totally different. Actually, the British School teachers were much stricter than the MSB teachers, so we tried to explain to her that they weren’t being mean, but just being strict so she could learn more.

Find a school that fits your needs. Then do whatever it takes to make it a positive experience. And, if possible, [if your kids are going into preschool] start them out on a half-day program.

Settling In

Monkey see, monkey do
Eton likes to have returning students come back to school first. “New students arrive and see the other children are already settled in and getting on with their day and are encouraged to copy them,” comments Sarah. This method helps establish a routine for the children, and minimizes the first-day chaos of a bunch of new arrivals attempting to make sense of it all. If your child’s school doesn’t work similarly, you might try to find an older child or sibling to accompany your child on the way to school the first day or two.

Don’t be overwhelmed
The first day can often be flustering. To avoid sensory overload, Ivy Bilingual School separates their newcomers into two groups and has them come in on separate days. “This ensures that kids aren’t overwhelmed by the experience and we also encourage parents to join their children in the classroom during this transition period,” says Jack.

Moving on up
If it’s time for your child to make the leap from nursery to elementary school, consider the similarities and differences between their current and future schools. If your child attends a kindergarten or nursery with a Montessori curriculum and will be transitioning to a Chinese elementary school, for instance, she may have some difficulties getting used to the more structured schedule. Some schools offer transitional classes in which kids are introduced to things like raising their hands and sitting in rows. However, a lot of Beijing’s international nursery schools and kindergartens have links with international elementary schools with whom they share similar environments, so a transition class might not be necessary.

Don’t Forget
• This can be as hard on you as it is for your kid – harder sometimes!
• Don’t let your child sense your apprehension when you drop her off.
• Get involved in school activities.
• Meet parents in the same situation and get their advice.

Elementary School Transitions
Wayne Demnar, Elementary School Principal at Beijing BISS International School, gives advice on setting a positive example

Getting Prepared

Get psyched for school
Talking about the experiences your child is going to have in a positive fashion will help turn feelings of apprehension into excitement, suggests Wayne. “We try to talk very positively in the interview process about the school, the students and the staff, so that the children are really looking forward to coming to school.” The good news is that this shouldn’t be too hard for kids starting elementary school at the same time as others: “The kids want to make friends and have a good time,” says Wayne, “and that is the motivation for their initial communication with their new classmates.”

Settling In

Hey, buddy
A lot of schools like to pair off new students using a “buddy system” in which a new student is assigned someone to look after them for their first few days. This is a good way for kids to learn the ropes and a means of developing the much-needed friendships that will help everything else run smoothly. “We also believe that parents organizing play sessions at their home with their children’s new friends is also an effective way of helping students to settle in,” says Wayne.

Don’t Forget
• Help your child with the extra work she might be taking on.
• Be positive about the experience your child is going to have.
• Communicate with the school if you are having any problems.
• Meet parents of other new children and share your experiences.

Real Life Experience: Transferring Schools in High School

When Ariana Koblitz moved to Beijing from Germany last fall, she had both a new country and a new school to contend with at the same time. With one successful year at the International School of Beijing under her belt, she’s returning to ISB as a senior this fall. We asked Ariana and her mom Becky for some advice on smooth school swapping.

Ariana: Presenting yourself for judgment is never easy, and so of course the first day at ISB was something I’d definitely thought a lot about beforehand. But having previously attended an international school in Germany, I wasn’t too nervous about entering ISB. There are numerous aspects that are common to international schools all over, and one of them that I especially appreciate is the tolerance towards people with a complicated family history, heritage, or a truckload of experiences to share. So I wasn’t too worried about settling in.

Becky: As parents we were not too nervous because we knew from Ariana’s younger sister’s experience entering ISB that the faculty is open, and we also knew that it was the type of school that Ariana was looking for. We knew Ariana was an outgoing person so we weren’t worried about how she was going to settle in.

During the summer preceding her enrollment we got information from the English department about the coursework so she would have an overview of what to expect as well as be able to read the books on their list of recommended summer reading.

We would advise other families to involve their child in the choice of school. The school the child attends should be where they want to be, but even more important, they should be committed to making it work. This commitment comes more readily when they have had a say in the choice of school.

Middle School and High School Transitions

David Wood, a high school counselor at Western Academy of Beijing, discusses keeping your kid active and healthy

Getting Prepared

Do your groundwork
“It’s all about preparation for new school students,” insists David. “Familiarizing your child with the new environment is key and it can really help them in the difficult transition phase.” David suggests giving your child a visual sense of the school and neighborhood by scoping out the campus, or, if you are unable to visit, by checking out photos on the web. “At WAB we try to meet the students at least once before they arrive, but if we can’t we make sure that they have e-mail and phone contact with a counselor or a teacher from the school. We don’t want there to be any surprises when they get here.”

Get connected
Of course, students aren’t going to be getting the same info from a teacher as they would from future classmates, so David also suggests trying to contact a student you already know who attends the school. “We set up e-mail buddies so the kids can get the lowdown on what the school’s like, as well as stuff like where to buy cool clothes, or get a decent cheeseburger. It’s important that the information they get is positive, so I am very selective in which students I choose.”

Settling In

Hit the ground running
“It’s really important to be active and get involved in after-school activities as soon as you arrive,” suggests David. This shouldn’t be a problem in Beijing, where international schools are renowned for their great facilities and abundant extracurricular programs.

Home sweet home
“If you are arriving in Beijing for the first time it’s also a good idea to set up your home as soon as you can because, even though you may feel like you’re not going to be in Beijing forever, you have to at least have your base ready,” David points out.

Stick to a healthy schedule
In addition to a stable home base and a calendar full of activities, the next most important thing is to look after your child’s health. “If kids are eating right and getting exercise then this makes a big difference to their whole wellbeing and can make them feel a lot more positive about everything they are about to face.” Don’t let all the changes throw your family’s healthy patterns out of whack.

Don’t Forget

• Encourage your kid to stay open-minded about her new school.
• Prepare for difference and expect change.
• If you’re new to China, learn enough of the language to get around as soon as you can.
• Check out pictures to give yourselves a sense of what’s to come.
• Do some research into the activities your child enjoys and where she can participate in them.

Make the First Move

Get to Grips with Chinese Chess

Xiangqi (象棋), or Chinese chess as it is more commonly known, has been played in China since the fourth century BC. Nowadays, barely a street corner in Beijing is without a group of weathered old timers hunched over a board. Follow tbjkids’ guide to this classic game and in no time you’ll be pushing your chariot across the river and jumping your cannon over a screen like a pro.

The Game
Chinese chess is a two-player board game that shares many similarities with the game of chess played in the West. Like in most board games, players take alternate turns and move a single piece each time – the red player has the honor of starting the game. Both players start with 16 pieces, each of which is marked with a Chinese character denoting its role in the game (although each side uses a different character to represent a given piece’s role, e.g. elephant is 相 on the red pieces and 象 on the black). Most xiangqi sets use traditional rather than simplified characters, but this shouldn’t impede your game play once you’ve worked out which is which. If a piece is moved to a point occupied by an enemy piece then the enemy piece is captured and removed from play for the rest of the game.

The Board

A xiangqi board is made up of nine vertical lines (ranks) and ten horizontal lines (files). Unlike in chess, the xiangqi pieces are placed on the corners (points) of the squares rather than inside them. Running horizontally through the center of the board is the river (河 , see diagram). Only the horse, cannon, chariot and soldier can cross the river into the opponent’s half of the board. Each side of the board has its own palace (宫gōng, see diagram) marked with an X. Inside the palace reside the general and two mandarins. If you don’t own your own xiangqi board, it is possible to modify a traditional chess board to play, but it is a bit awkward.

The Object of the Game
The object of the game is to checkmate your opponent’s general. If the general is threatened with capture by another piece, then it is said to be in check (将jiāng) and on the player’s next turn must be moved to a position in which it is not threatened. If this is impossible, checkmate has been achieved (将军 jiāngjūn) and the game is over. A stalemate is reached when one player has no legal move to make but neither general is in check.

The Pieces

General (king) 1 per side

jiàng
shuài

Similar to the king in chess, the general is the most important piece on the board, and the object of the game is to checkmate your opponents general. The general is confined to the palace (宫 gōng) and can only move one point in an either vertical or horizontal direction in every move. One rule unique to xiangqi is that the two opposing generals cannot face each other on the same file (horizontal line) without other pieces in between them. If this happens, the last general to move is in check and needs to move to safety on the next turn.

Chariot 2 per side


The chariot is similar to a rook in chess, in that it moves and captures other pieces in a vertical or horizontal fashion. It is also able to move as many points as required for every turn, making it the most powerful piece on the board.

Mandarin (assistant) 2 per side

shì
shì

Like all good mandarins, these pieces remain inside the palace at all times and their main purpose is to protect the general – at all costs. Each turn they move one point in a diagonal direction. They are limited to defense.

Cannon 2 per side

pào
pào

When not capturing, the cannons move exactly like the chariots, either horizontally or vertically and as many points as required. However, to successfully take an opposing player’s piece you must first jump the cannon over another piece (known as the screen) of either color before landing at the intended target. The cannon then replaces the taken piece on its point. There must be no other pieces in the way of the cannon and its target apart from the screen, but there can be any number of points in between the three pieces. The cannons are very effective at trapping the general in check and checkmate because of their ability to leap over a single blocking piece.

Elephant 2 per side

xiàng
xiàng

These exotic beasts can cover more ground than the mandarins (two points diagonally every turn), but their large size means they are unable to jump over opposition pieces. Being rather water-shy they do not cross the river in the center of the board and therefore are largely defensive pieces.

Soldier (pawn) 5 per side


bīng

Each team has five of these hard-working pieces that move and capture by moving forward vertically or diagonally one point for every move. When the soldiers have crossed the river into the opposition player’s half of the board they can also move and capture one point horizontally. These brave pieces are cursed with an inability to move backwards, so retreating is never an option!

Horse 2 per side


The horse first moves one point either horizontally or vertically and then one point diagonally so that it ends up two points away from where it started. Unlike in chess, the horse is unable to jump over pieces, so if there is something in its way, its move is blocked.

Where to Buy
Getting your hands on a xiangqi set couldn’t be easier. All major supermarkets (like Carrefour) sell sets starting at RMB 5 all the way up to RMB 300. If bargaining is more your thing, markets like Alien Street (Laofanjie Shichang) and Yabao Lu (south of Fulllink Plaza) are good places to look for more traditional sets.

More
You can find out more about Chinese chess and play free online at Club Xiangqi

Party Like A . . . : Sarariman

Business as usual at Japanese bars

by Simon Fowler

I love the Japanese. They have a work ethic that would put Ramses’ slaves to shame, invent technology that I covet with every ounce of my being, and party like it’s the end of the world practically every night of the week. The “sarariman” (salaryman) and his female counterpart, the “OL” (office lady), typify that spirit. Sararimen and OLs are practically married to their jobs. But when they finally clock out, they hit the town hard, quaffing Suntory whiskey like it’s going out of fashion and only heading home when their vomit-soaked bodies have been kicked out of the last bar in town.

Taiko Kobayashi, self-professed OL and my guide on this particular ribender, met me at G Zou, where we enjoyed impossibly cold Asahi beer in earthenware mugs (RMB 10), and potato shochu (gentlemen’s moonshine, RMB 35). Having successfully used the Japanese toilet – imagine pissing on a fax machine – and giving ourselves a healthy post-work buzz, we ran off into the night in search of mischief.

Promise in Jianwai Soho proudly sports its Best Bar award from Concierge magazine (a local Japanese listings rag). A bartender with a collar the size of a Jacobean ruff offers a vast arsenal of whiskey. He takes his drink seriously. Our shots of Suntory (RMB 50) came with one giant ice cube the size of a tennis ball. Apparently its size minimizes the ice melting into the liquor. After an hour or so of polite chitchat and profuse bowing with the other patrons, the urge to cut loose gripped us. We made our way to Wain Wain in Soho New Town.

With unlimited refills for RMB 90 on mixed drinks, and private rooms with the addictive and baffling Nintendo Wii, Wain Wain unleashed the 15-year-old boozehound in me. We switched back to beer (RMB 15, not included in the deal) and amused ourselves with tennis, bowling and boxing on the Wii, stuffing our drunken faces with bento boxes and pizza. By then I’d forgotten that I had work the next morning and was itching for a nightcap.

Taiko knew of a place next to the Chaoyang Theater that she insisted was the best Japanese bar in town. As we schlepped into Ichikura, I became intensely aware that I was not sophisticated enough for this type of establishment. We took seats at the bar and surveyed the hundreds of bottles of whiskey in front of us. The friendly but slightly creepy bartender came to take our order, and I asked him to recommend a smoky brand of whiskey. In a flash he returned with an ornate bottle in hand. We inhaled the intoxicating scent. “It’s a little bit expensive, sir,” the barkeep said, “100 kuai a shot.” The laowai in me conquered the sarariman. I ordered something less … smoky.

Ichikura
36 Dongsanhuan Beilu (next to Chaoyang Theater), Chaoyang District (6507 1107)

G Zou
1/F (west side), Bldg C, 2 Guanghua Lu (inside Sunshine 100), Chaoyang District (5100 3038)

Bar Promise
Room 1537, Bldg 15 2/F, Jianwai Soho, 39 Dongsanhuan Zhonglu, Chaoyang District (5900 0151)

Wain Wain
Room 3512, Bldg A, SOHO New Town, 88 Jianguo Lu, Chaoyang District (8589 4383)